The world has changed in my lifetime, and I didn’;t keep up in one area. Sex. It was something I chose to live without. This unique perspective offers me a look at sex in a way no active person could at this stage. I want to believe there are many men over 40 who don’t activly seek sex, whether it be biological, mental or just a choice.
The video chat world online seems to be a success, in at least that there are a lot of women doing it, and presumably making enough to justify it – although I stronlgly believe a lot of them are in foreign warehouses working shifts for horrible bosses… but I try not to think too hard about that.
I was aware of video chatting with women long before the masses. A great friend at the time was a pioneer in the industry before it existed. Dial up video chats with proprietory software was raking in thgousands of dllars a day. Eventually he bought a boat and lived away for a decade as the Internet technologies and foreign budgets took the industry over. I never really got into an online chat relastionship. I’ve tried multiple times over the 30 years I’ve been on;line. I have the same problem in a chat room that I do in real life. I don’t like to ask. I don’t like to speak first.
I have incredibly fond memories of my experience with telephone chat lines before the Intenet. There was a book when phone sex changed from 1-976 autio billing numbers to credit card over regular phones. I remember the emergence of chatline software for phones.
I love it. To this day, it is my favourite way to mingle and meet. It fits to my brain and phobia perfectly. Everyone calls in and leaves a 2 minute greeting. Everyone then hears the greetings and can choose to reply with a 2 minute message. Conversations can happen slowly in 2 minute recorded messages. No live conversation stress, and you can always re-record if you screw up.
I was a master of these lines. I was charming and happy and mae people smile with humour and conversation. In the early days, people actually called in and just talked. Romance was secondary and dirty talk was minimul.
I remember one particular line I loved the most. It was designed for fun conversations only, and the initial greeting had to be a question, so you had perfect opening line IN, because you bwere answering questions. I loved it. I was a hit,m and I dated from it, back 30 years ago.
Today, The Internet has taken over and video chat has changed. There are 10,000 women standing, sitting or pole dancing in a window on your screen. It’s almost like te red light district in Amsterdam, except the windows are webcams and they’re in some bedroom set. They talk a little, and chat a little, but if you pay, the private chat beginds. Presumably disrty sexy chat, or perhaps actual sex. Whatever you pay for, and what ladies will comply.
Sadly, there are so many, I can flip and flip like a channel on the old TV’s but few are worthy of my attention. They are not talking. They are just voge posing or teasing. I’m not even sure they’re English, and in many instances, you can see it’s not even live. It’s a looping fake women pretending to chat with you while you pay.
I found a couple of sites that let peole use similar software and not talk about sex, but many of them are teen and pre-teen audiences.
To be honest, I have yet to find any as fun as the old phone style chat rooms. I am shockd nobody is really doing it on the Internet yet, although the Night xchange people have a working model and some of the others have apps too, but none are like I remember.
15 people from your city call in and listen to eachj others messages, then possible break off into personal conversauions, or just keep sending 2 minute messages to multiple people at omnce.
It was great fun.
It occurred to me that there are many opportunities where men will pay pretty women to do things other than sex. Just listening to a sexy voice is a turn on for many, and a story telling voice could be as exciting as old time radio, but paid for by lonely or stoned men.
Sell live phone calls that are not about sex. Like a voice escort that actually entertains and sends time with.
Also, a voice friend. A regular call from a sexy voice that asks you girlfriend like questions and other girl friend like attributes.
Pretty faces read a book to you via webcam free. If you prefer, she’ll read to you with stop and talk interaction. It may take 3 hours to watch one show.
I think nerds and blanks that don’t date might practice date with paid gfe dates
Like I dud in sl.
Do escorts teach ?
The term GFE in escort ads refers to Girlfriend Experience, and I always kind of figured it meant, they show up and acts as if they know you, and not as an escort. I wonder if it could be more. Can I actually hire a temp girlfriend for non sex gf activities?
I did in Second Life.
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