Sex, Drugs and Rock and Roll (or EDM) has been a partier’s top 3 activities for decades. The drugs and music may have changed, and the rules for sex are not the same as in the 70s or 80s but music, sex and drugs are the party tools.

I’ve been missing out on a major third and I’m almost 60. It’s so hard scrolling through Tumblr or Reddit posts and seeing everybody talking sex. Everybody but me.

I’ve never been comfortable with dirty talk or even discussing sex among friends. It’s so weird being out of such a substantial loop with little hope to ever be at that party.

I’d like to, and I thought it might happen over the years when high. I’ve been as high as possible but still not feeling like sex.

At least I learned asexuality is a real thing and I’m not just a freak. I don’t try so hard at being disappointed.

I go with the flow. Happy and funny Jeff.